Life is so short.... and it's evident that when things in your life are perhaps not ideal, and you hear of tragedy, it affects you that much more................
Here we all are worried about relationships and who we love and what's inside and this one wanting to divorce that one and unsure about people's feelings, and taking time to figure out shit and second chances cos these are the "toughest" situations we have to deal with.... and they probably are, but it's cos NO ONE thinks anymore about the whole "it could be worse" scenario anymore... NO ONE thinks about what they have......... we're all running around chasing paper and pipedreams and ignoring the love we already have, the home we have, the work we have, the friends we have....... cos society said "you deserve better" and "you can have whatever you want", so guess what ... we go after whatever we want.... not knowing that life does in fact come with boundaries and you can't actually just have whatever you want..... it's so sad how the world has changed.............
When a guy dies.............................. and someone has lost a father.................. someone has lost a husband.................... when they thought they had thousands of "tomorrows"............ and heaven forbid if one thing was left unsaid, one truth, one "i love you" or "thank you" or ............ "sorry"
I immediately thought of the person / people in my life..... if anything had to happen to them............ and let me tell you something if you will let your mind imagine that feeling, actually see it in your mind..... the feeling of no more tomorrows with them..... well let's just say.... they always say, "don't spend time with someone or find someone who you can "live with" ..... be with someone / spend time with the people you "can't live without"...... When you know, you know.... go for that. Don't kid yourself.... That's why smarter people end up with fewer friends...
We all have a lot of emotional growing up to do.......................... I could die tomorrow... anyone could. Why am I or anyone wasting their time...see your family, check in with your friends, love your husbands and wives, leave the relationships where love is gone.... spend it with those who do.... Just ya... it's a an endless conversation or discussion I guess.......
I guess the old truth always goes that other people's deaths teach others to live... lessons are everywhere... it's to pay attention to them that makes it worthwhile in the grand scheme of life.....anyway we're all different... we learn at different times from different situations............. I get that.... but yeah, This story just affected my thoughts...........
RIP D.P
