Soft side....

If you try and fail... are you any better that those who haven't tried at all? It is fair to know that the most successful thing would be to try and succeed. I have come to realise in all I've experienced and witnessed in others how we react to things, when we react to things, what our thoughts are when we do... that it is ALL governed by emotion. We can try as hard as we can to be rational and reasonable when we are content in our emotion and in our minds. But when we are challenged emotionally, it's quite extraordinary how less level-headed we become, we try so hard to maintain the rationality and keep ourselves poised in a situation that causes distress or upset. The look on the face, the change in our tones, the body language all changes. This i deem to be natural. I don't see how we as human beings, can ensure that we 'look' like absolutely nothing is wrong, when the important part is to make certain that we don't act badly on it or unreasonably. That is the part that matters, that is the part that counts and that is the part that saves you from handling something badly. That is where the trying and succeeding comes into play. But the looks and feelings are natural. If they weren't there, then quite honestly - you wouldn't really be being faced with an emotional situation at all. As there was no emotion it would seem. This is impossible. We are all just bodies walking the earth.... but emotion is what makes us human. Controlling it makes us strong..... showing it means we trust and care for those who we let see it..